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Showing posts with label Cancer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Cancer. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 02, 2009

Portuguese stuff & Rubio's

A few weeks ago, TC's school had their Multicultural Day for the 2nd graders. Last year when she was in 2nd grade, me and a group of the other Filipino American parents did the booth for the Philippines. If I may say so myself, I think our booth was one of the best there last year. We had not just one table, but five (3 were ours) so that we could properly display many of the items borrowed from the PASACAT dance company and the various families who helped out.

I will never forget last year's Multicultural festival because that was the week my hair started falling out. My first chemo was in early May last year. I went for about 2 and 1/2 weeks thinking, "Hey, it's not so bad...I still have my hair!". Then the third week of May rolled around. I was stressed out over the booth and trying to get everything together. Later that week, my hair felt "different". For example, after I'd brush it, it felt kind of limp and lifeless. My hair didn't "react" the same way when I flat ironed it. The biggest telltale sign was the hairs falling out without resistance when I ratted some parts of my hair. It was the wierdest thing too when I'd flip my hair or brush it back with my fingers and a whole clump would just fall out. I was terrified that my head would be bare by the end of the day. Okay, that's an exaggeration, but I was still kind of freaked out that people would notice that I was "shedding". Seriously, if you held onto a lock of my hair and pulled slightly, it would separate from my scalep easily.

The decision to shave it all had been brewing in my mind for the past few weeks that month. The Multicultural Day was on a Thursday. The next day, I went to my hairstylist and had my head shaved. My daughter was with me and took photos of the whole process. I still had some hair since my stylists didn't shave it bare, but just with maybe 1/4 of an inch left. I looked like GI Jane. Anyways, I can't believe it's been a year already!

Back to the topic, this year, our neighbor across the street was going to have a booth for the Multicultural Festival. Although she is Mexican American, her husband is Portuguese (but born and raised in Angola, a former Portuguese colony in Africa). She needed help to man the booth so Bert was kind enough to help her out. She had her lesson plan prepared, the decorations for the booth and was wearing a native costume of her husband's hometown in Portugal (actually his parents' hometown). Bert educated the kids about soccer player, Cristian Ronaldo.

Here is a basket of assorted food items from Portugal - Linguica (sausage), canned sardines packed in oil, a loaf of bread, olives, cheese (I wasn't able to find out what kind it was), and grapes...By the way, the grapes were fake.
Our neighbor also ordered a few dozen of this brand of Portuguese soda, Sumol. Although there are a lot of different flavors, she chose the Passion Fruit to serve the kids. She also gave us a couple of cans! Tastes like Hawaiian Sun brand soda...which is a good thing! Super sweet!
On another day, Bert, TC & I were running errands in the Eastlake area. I had a few coupons for Rubio's so we went there to make use of them.
We used a coupon for a new food item that Rubio's was inflicting upon the public, I mean, offering to its customers - The All-American Taco. I had a 'buy one, get one free', and Bert had one as well. We decided to give it a try even though one of my students told me he didn't really like it. The "All-American Taco" is basically a hamburger in a tortilla. Bert was watching them make it and it was a half a ground beef patty with cheese that they grill. They they put it in the flour tortilla along with chopped lettuce and tomatoes. As you can see, the photo on the display does not resemble the actual food item itself!!!!
The verdict? It was good for a try but I don't think we would go back to order this. I prefer their regular fish tacos much much better.. Well, TC liked the All American Taco because she likes cheeseburgers and this was the bastardized Rubio's version of it.

Wednesday, July 09, 2008

Last one!

I'm finally done with my last chemo treatment!

Now, I've gotta lay low for the next three weeks - stay away from crowds, not eat out at restaurants, not eat raw fruits or vegetables, and not be in contact with sick people...etc. Basically, be a hermit.

It was such a relief when the nurse took out that needle near my wrist!

After one month, it's Tamoxifen (pill form) everyday for five years.

Tuesday, July 08, 2008

Figs for Bri Fundraiser Reminder

Just a reminder that the Figs for Bri Fundraiser ends on July 15. Even though I have never met Bri, I saw her blog through another food blogger's link (see my June 21 post). It's not too late to help out.

See the info below:
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This is an appeal on behalf of a group of food bloggers who are friends of Briana Brownlow @ Figs With Bri.

Bri was diagnosed with breast cancer two and half years ago. A mastectomy, chemotherapy and two years of relatively good health later, the cancer is back. It has metastasized to other parts of her body. At the age of 15, Bri lost her 41-year old mother to the disease. Now, she’s waging her own war against breast cancer. More about it here.

She is going through intensive chemo and other treatments and needs to focus single-mindedly on healing and finding what treatment works best for her. Her health insurance, unfortunately, does not cover holistic alternatives which she would like to try. Bri and her husband Marc have enough on their plates right now in addition to worrying about her medical bills.

The team organising the JUNE edition of CLICK at Jugalbandi has organised a fundraiser to help Bri and her family meet her out-of-pocket medical costs for ONE YEAR.

CLICK is a monthly theme-based photography contest hosted by Jugalbandi. This month’s theme is: YELLOW for Bri

Yellow is the colour of hope. Through the work of the LiveStrong Foundation, it has also come to signify the fight against cancer.

The entries can be viewed HERE. The deadline for entries is June 30, 2008. The fundraiser will extend until July 15, 2008.

The target amount is 12,000 U.S. dollars. We appeal to our fellow bloggers and readers to help us achieve this. Bri deserves a chance to explore all options, even if her insurance company thinks otherwise.

There’s a raffle with exciting prizes on offer. After viewing the list, you may make your donation HERE or at the Chip-In button on any participating site.

Your donation can be made securely through credit card or Pay Pal and goes directly to Bri’s account.

This month’s photo contest also has some prizes. Details HERE.

You can support this campaign by donating to the fundraiser, by participating in CLICK: the photo event, and by publicising this campaign.

Back Home...and one more day

It's nice to be back home, sleeping in my own bed, being in my own backyard watching my garden grow, being home with my husband and daughter, eating good food!

I'm so anxious and excited for tomorrow because it's my last chemo.

As SD foodblogger Captain Jack advised me, I WILL "kick cancer repeatedly in the nuts" with "Great Vengeance and Furious Anger!" (for you pop culture Philistines - the second half of the quote is from Samuel L. Jackson's 'Pulp Fiction' character Jules Winnfield quoting Ezequiel 25:17)!

Monday, June 30, 2008

Updates

I've included a new food related posts that were piling up over the past few months. I finally had the desire and energy to post them. But it's been kind of nice going out to eat and NOT obsessively taking photos of each and every food item. But the itch to get back into it was too overpowering.

Well, it's the end of June.

Happy Birthday Thane! I'm glad you're back in good ole SD.

Tomorrow is July 1 - which is Canada Day, so to Chrissie from Life in Manitoulin, Happy Canada Day, eh!

Tomorrow is also our 13th Wedding Anniversary. So yay for that.

I have one more chemo treatment to go in 1 1/2 weeks. The sooner the better!

Saturday, June 21, 2008

Figs for Bri Fundraiser

Hi everyone
Even though I've never met Bri, I stumbled upon her blog, Figs with Bri through Wandering Chopsticks foodblog (who's linked through San Diego's MMM-Yoso ). Even though I've never met Wandering Chopsticks either, Bri's story appealed to me. It's for a good cause and also one that I've been dealing with personally these past few months, breast cancer.

Yeah you heard that right. That is a BIGASS reason why I haven't been blogging as faithfully. Hearing something like THAT made me realize I had more important things to take care of instead of blogging. I'll be honest with you, it FKG sucks especially since I'm so young (just turned 39, but I look and feel young!), but cancer is indiscriminate towards age and doesn't care who it hits. The most important thing is that the cancer was caught early enough and it was treated. Having one less boob is a small price to pay for having my life. They say cancer changes your life and that it has. As cliched as it sounds, I am really looking at my priorities and life in a more reflective manner and being as positive as I can about this experience. That's my only choice because I can't afford to wallow in negative thoughts.

Since the "news", I've taken time off work since my diagnosis in late March (I'm in Stage 2-A). I had my mastectomy on my left breast in mid-April (yeah, happy late birthday to me!) and and have just completed my third round of chemotherapy a few days ago. I have one more treatment to go, then it's five years of Tamoxifen and hopefully no more of this bitch of a cancer.

Had my head shaved last month because it sucked seeing my hair all over the place. I had TC with me and the trooper that she is, took photos of her mommy getting her head sheared. No more cool rocker chick haircut. Now I look like GI Jane. But not as buff( I wish!)! Please, no Mrs. Clean or Sinead o'Connor jokes! I'd like to be as hot as Persis Khambatta (Lt. Ilia in the Star Trek - The Motion Picture, 1979) or Natalie Portman in "V is for Vendetta". Although I have 3 different wigs to play around with (one is black and looks like my old hair, the other two are dark brown - a bit of a conservative "Posh" bob and what I call my very tamed Robert Smith of the Cure shag), I rock the bald look at home. I hope my hair grows in to at least Billy Idol length by the time I plan to start work again, which I haven't yet determined the date.

Physically and mentally I'm doing pretty good, but I haven't really written about my experiences on my blog since I am normally a very private person. However, I wanted to somewhat break my silence about my condition to help Bri. This blog will still be about food and quirky things that amuse me, but I really need to expend my time and energy on healing, and spending quality time with my family especially my daughter. I won't be posting too much of my personal matters here unless I feel the need to. (update on 7/9 - I've broken out of my shell and posted a few newer posts about my experiences with cancer...guess I wanted to vent!)

But enough about me, and more about Bri. Hopefully foodbloggers out here or any random readers, especially in San Diego can help Bri reach her goal of raising money for her alternative treatments. She's almost at her goal - 97%! (update on 7/9 - Looks like the fundraiser was successful! She has surpassed her goal of 100%, which is EXCELLENT! However, the fundraiser will still go on to July 15, so it's not too late to donate for Bri!)

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This is an appeal on behalf of a group of food bloggers who are friends of Briana Brownlow @ Figs With Bri.

Bri was diagnosed with breast cancer two and half years ago. A mastectomy, chemotherapy and two years of relatively good health later, the cancer is back. It has metastasized to other parts of her body. At the age of 15, Bri lost her 41-year old mother to the disease. Now, she’s waging her own war against breast cancer. More about it here.

She is going through intensive chemo and other treatments and needs to focus single-mindedly on healing and finding what treatment works best for her. Her health insurance, unfortunately, does not cover holistic alternatives which she would like to try. Bri and her husband Marc have enough on their plates right now in addition to worrying about her medical bills.

The team organising the JUNE edition of CLICK at Jugalbandi has organised a fundraiser to help Bri and her family meet her out-of-pocket medical costs for ONE YEAR.

CLICK is a monthly theme-based photography contest hosted by Jugalbandi. This month’s theme is: YELLOW for Bri

Yellow is the colour of hope. Through the work of the LiveStrong Foundation, it has also come to signify the fight against cancer.

The entries can be viewed HERE. The deadline for entries is June 30, 2008. The fundraiser will extend until July 15, 2008.

The target amount is 12,000 U.S. dollars. We appeal to our fellow bloggers and readers to help us achieve this. Bri deserves a chance to explore all options, even if her insurance company thinks otherwise.

There’s a raffle with exciting prizes on offer. After viewing the list, you may make your donation HERE or at the Chip-In button on any participating site.

Your donation can be made securely through credit card or Pay Pal and goes directly to Bri’s account.

This month’s photo contest also has some prizes. Details HERE.

You can support this campaign by donating to the fundraiser, by participating in CLICK: the photo event, and by publicising this campaign.